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0404 - Summary/Objective
0405 -
040501 - Follow up ref SDS 17 0000. ref SDS 16 0000.
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0408 - Background
0409 -
040901 - On 100729 0510 at 1700 Millie died with her family and friends at her
040902 - bedside. ref SDS 4 EK4I
040904 -  ..
040905 - On 100731 2221 memoriam celebrating and honoring Millie's life
040906 - submitted to family, friends, co-workers. ref SDS 7 RJ5H
040908 -  ..
040909 - On 100807 1300 memorial services for Millie at Ron and Kim's in
040910 - Clayton, ref SDS 10 RJ5H, extending memoriam on ending Millie's time,
040911 - reported, 100731 2221, ref SDS 7 RJ5H
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040914 - On 100808 1217 Millie's children packing her clothing into black bags
040915 - for donating to Hospice. ref SDS 12 WB7O  Found pearl earring in back
040916 - seat of car; could be one missing for some months. ref SDS 12 LH6L
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040919 - On 100808 1234 letter from Karen asking about services for Millie on
040920 - 100807 at Ron and Kim's and reporting the family in Colorado also held
040921 - services for Millie. ref SDS 13 Q67M
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040924 - On 100808 1839 letter to Pam reporting pearl earring found this
040925 - afternoon is now missing again; did the girls take it. ref SDS 14 WB7O
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040928 - On 100809 0811 letter to friends and family transmitting record of
040929 - memorial services for Millie on 100807. ref SDS 15 WB7O
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040932 - On 100809 1218 letter from Kim notifying that the kids plan to remove
040933 - Millie's belongings on 100822. ref SDS 16 WB7O
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040936 - On 100809 1321 letter from Ross appreciated memorial services for
040937 - Millie. ref SDS 17 WB7O  Extends invitation to visit the family in
040938 - Connecticut. ref SDS 17 GO5S
040940 -  ..
040941 - Called Ross about visiting in a week or two. ref SDS 0 WB7O  Submitted
040942 - confirming letter. ref SDS 0 JV6N
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0412 - Progress
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041301 - Called and left message for Ross and Claudia, who may be at dinner.
041302 - Thanked Ross for his letter of condolence on 100809 1321. ref SDS 17
041303 - WB7O
041305 -  ..
041306 - Asked about taking him up on visiting at the end of August, after a
041307 - medical procedure on 100827, also discussed in Ross' letter on 100809
041308 - 1321. ref SDS 17 GO5S
041309 -
041310 -            [...below letter confirms phone message asking about
041311 -            visiting at end of August. ref SDS 0 5W9Q
041313 -             ..
041314 -            [On 100816 0607 Ross and Claudia say okay to visit on
041315 -            100828. ref SDS 19 PC4O
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041318 - Thinking of flying, because driving will not be as much fun without
041319 - Millie.
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0416 - 1740
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041701 - Ross did not call back.
041702 -
041703 - Research indicates LaGuardia is closes airport to Amonk NY, where
041704 - Ross works.
041706 -  ..
041707 - Airfare from SFO to LGA costs from $300 to $500 round trip for 2 week
041708 - visit from 100828, the day after surgery until 100911.
041710 -  ..
041711 - Can get to SFO on BART without needing the car, take a cab.
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0420 - 2315
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042101 - Letter to Ross and Claudia confirms telecon, and says...
042102 -
042103 -    1.  Subject: Visit End of August??
042104 -        Date: Sun, 15 Aug 2010 23:50:01 -0700
042112 -         ..
042113 -    2.  Called the house this evening and left a message about visiting
042114 -        at the end of the month [...reported today on 100815 1645,
042115 -        ref SDS 0 WB7O...], per your letter with condolences on
042116 -        Millie's death [...reported on 100809 1321. ref SDS 17 GO5S...]
042117 -        I would like to do this, if your schedule still permits.
042119 -         ..
042120 -    3.  The past 2 years have been "all hands on deck" to move the
042121 -        "mountain" at Kaiser and UCSF, but we ran out of time.
042123 -         ..
042124 -    4.  Clint Eastwood has a line in his movie "Unforgiven" (circa
042125 -        1992) -- "We've all got it coming, kid!"
042127 -         ..
042128 -    5.  Millie, however, was innocent!  She didn't have it coming at
042129 -        this time, which is the entire game in oncology care.
042131 -         ..
042132 -    6.  USAFIC study published in the late 70s found that all major DOD
042133 -        projects fail because management collapses into chaos over
042134 -        time.  That is the best that can be said in Millie's case --
042135 -        after 9 years, the medical team could not cope with
042136 -        complexities of her care [...listed on 090213 1140. ref SDS 2
042137 -        AC6G...]  Still, it is difficult to see how 44 requests for
042138 -        treatment could simply be overlooked, rather than purposefully
042139 -        ignored to save money, particularly since the doctor told us a
042140 -        year earlier that Kaiser would not pay more money for Mil's
042141 -        care -- remember the story about the wise man from India who
042142 -        invented chess -- that's what we heard on 090213. 090213 1140,
042143 -        ref SDS 2 4N67
042145 -         ..
042146 -    7.  In any case, the immediate frenzy of activity the past 2 months
042147 -        is now a big void, so getting away may be helpful.
042149 -         ..
042150 -    8.  As mentioned in the phone message, I have a minor medical
042151 -        procedure on 100827, so thought I might fly out to LGA the next
042152 -        day, and stay for a week or so depending on your situation.
042153 -        Please let me know if this sounds doable.  "Chores" sound
042154 -        promising.
042155 -
042156 -            [On 100816 0607 Ross and Claudia say okay to visit on
042157 -            100828. ref SDS 19 PC4O
042159 -         ..
042160 -    9.  Thanks very much for warm condolences on Millie.
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