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0403 -    ..
0404 - Summary/Objective
0405 -
040501 - Follow up ref SDS 10 0000. ref SDS 7 0000.
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0408 - Background
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040901 - On 100729 0510 at 1700 Millie died with her family and friends at her
040902 - bedside. ref SDS 4 EK4I
040904 -  ..
040905 - On 100731 2221 memoriam celebrating and honoring Millie's life
040906 - submitted to family, friends, co-workers. ref SDS 7 RJ5H
040908 -  ..
040909 - On 100807 1300 memorial services for Millie at Ron and Kim's in
040910 - Clayton, ref SDS 10 RJ5H, extending memoriam on ending Millie's time,
040911 - reported, 100731 2221, ref SDS 7 RJ5H
040913 -  ..
040914 - On 100808 1217 Millie's children packing her clothing into black bags
040915 - for donating to Hospice. ref SDS 0 WB7O  Reported finding pearl
040916 - earring in back seat of car; could be one missing for some months.
040917 - ref SDS 0 LH6L
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0412 - Progress
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041301 - Returning from hiking at Lafayette Reservoir was startling to see a
041302 - box in the living room and hear the television; then noticed Steve on
041303 - the couch and was relieved.
041305 -  ..
041306 - Upstairs Pam, Kim, and Lilly were putting Mil's clothing into black
041307 - trash bags for donating to Hospice, which is what Millie likely
041308 - wanted.  Still, the symbolism was totally unnerving seeing cloths,
041309 - shoes, purses acquired over decades with great care and attention, and
041310 - which Millie wore with grace and style, not as a regal queen, but with
041311 - beautuful and purposeful appointment, noted last weekend by Doctor
041312 - Johnson, when he called with condolences on 100731 1343. ref SDS 6
041313 - UH6I
041315 -  ..
041316 - Whether now, or in another few years, this day was coming, as it is
041317 - for all of us.  So, so sad though that all of the work, time, and
041318 - careful consideration which Millie put into her life, which only
041319 - yesterday was described as "outstanding," "amazing," "inspirational,"
041320 - reported on 100807 1300, ref SDS 10 KM9F, seems so easily whisked away
041321 - in black bags for hopefully good use and care by strangers, rather
041322 - than by those she cared most about.
041324 -  ..
041325 - Pam said she called and left a message the team was coming over this
041326 - morning to start going through Millie's things, and it might be best
041327 - not to be here.  She called the cell phone number, but didn't take it
041328 - this morning, because the only person who has ever called is Millie.
041330 -  ..
041331 - Talked briefly with Lilly seperately in Mil's bedroom, and asking her
041332 - thoughts about who can take Sasha?  Lilly feels that since Sasha has
041333 - been an indoor cat her whole life, bringing up to their home in Grass
041334 - Valley to live on their 10 acres would not work for Sasha, because she
041335 - could not cope with the outdoors situation.  Lilly suggested asking
041336 - Pam if she knows of anyone who might take Sasha.
041337 -
041338 -            [On 100908 1133 letter from Pam suggests considering
041339 -            finding another home for Sasha, ref SDS 22 4R3M, and noting
041340 -            that she cannot take Sasha. ref SDS 22 MZ3Q
041342 -  ..
041343 - Went with Steve to Nation's restaraunt on Clayton, suggested by Kim,
041344 - to get lunch for everyone.  We all ordered cheesburgers and frys, but
041345 - forgot that Pam is a vegetarian.  There was likely a vegetarian
041346 - sandwich of some kind that could have been ordered for Pam.
041347 -
041348 -            [On 100831 1445 hamburgers for lunch in Danbury,
041349 -            Connectibut, with Ross, seems similar to Nations, as a step
041350 -            up from McDonalds. ref SDS 20 FW5G
041352 -  ..
041353 - Canobolizing Millie's effects was very hard work, took most of the
041354 - afternoon.  They plan to come back next weekend and continue work.
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041356 -            [On 100809 1218 letter from Kim notifies that Mil's
041357 -            children plan to visit again on 100822 to continue removing
041358 -            Millie's belongings. ref SDS 13 WB7O
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041361 -            [On 100814 2033 letter notified Pam of consideration to
041362 -            maintain appartment mostly intact, and that family should
041363 -            feel free to take anything needed. ref SDS 17 6S8W
041365 -             ..
041366 -            [On 100822 0900 family at the apartment removing more of
041367 -            Millie's belongings taking them to Hospice. ref SDS 18 WB7O
041369 -             ..
041370 -            [On 100827 1237 Pam reports stopping television cable
041371 -            service. 100826 0738, ref SDS 19 0089
041373 -             ..
041374 -            [On 100902 2004 Pam's letter reports plans to remove things
041375 -            from the kitchen. ref SDS 21 4Q9K
041377 -  ..
041378 - Showed Pam pearl earring found in the back seat of the car after
041379 - taking Benilda and Chris to BART following memorial services for
041380 - Millie yesterday, reported on 100807 2107. ref SDS 11 016R  Asked Pam
041381 - if they found in Millie's jewlery today a single pearl earring to
041382 - match the one found last night?  Thought the earring was placed on the
041383 - table next to the chair where Lilly was sitting.  Later put it on the
041384 - computer desk, because seemed like Pam indicated they did not find a
041385 - match.  In any case some months ago, Millie lost an earring.  Don't
041386 - rememeber it was a pearl earring but could have been.
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041388 -            [On 100809 1612 Chris reports pearl earing found in back
041389 -            seat of car on 100807, after taking her and Benilda to BART
041390 -            station, was not hers. ref SDS 14 UK5X
041392 -             ..
041393 -            [On 100808 1839 notify Pam pearl earring is missing again,
041394 -            and ask if they found a matching pair. ref SDS 12 WS6Q
041396 -             ..
041397 -            [On 100810 1103 Pam reports she has missing pearl earring
041398 -            found on 100807, ref SDS 15 NT5G, and cited in letter to
041399 -            Benilda and Chris, reported in the record on 100807 2107,
041400 -            ref SDS 11 016R
041402 -             ..
041403 -            [On 100810 1113 letter notifies Pam that pearl earring
041404 -            found in back seat of car on 100807, could be Millie's
041405 -            because she lost an earring some weeks or months ago, and
041406 -            she sat in back seat of car with her sister Dorothy, when
041407 -            Dorothy and their brother Frank visited in early June.
041408 -            ref SDS 16 C86U
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