CONTACTS 

SUBJECTS
Kathleen and Bob
Mother & Bob
Patti and Pablito Utzurim

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0605 -    ..
0606 - Summary/Objective
0607 -
060701 - Follow up ref SDS 13 0000, ref SDS 12 0000.
060702 -
060703 - Got two letters from Patty this morning saying she appreciated the
060704 - memorial for her mom, ref OF 1 0001, submitted last week on 011129.
060705 - ref SDS 13 U55L
060707 -  ..
060708 - There was a message from Mother on Sunday, this morning when I
060709 - returned from Millie's place this weekend.  She was crying.
060711 -  ..
060712 - Called her this morning.  Bob said she is asleep, so I offered to call
060713 - back; but, he wanted to wake mother up to take the call.  He said she
060714 - is depressed, and so talking to me might help.
060716 -  ..
060717 - Mother came on the phone and was emotional.
060719 -  ..
060720 - She was devestated from seeing Kathleen lying on the kitchen floor in
060721 - a pool of blood, reported on 011128. ref SDS 12 0001
060723 -  ..
060724 - We talked about making preparations for the memorial on 011215.
060726 -  ..
060727 - Mother talked to Aunt Barbara last night and they said they cannot
060728 - attend, because of the distance.
060730 -  ..
060731 - Discussed getting Robin to put up a Christmas tree, but mother said
060732 - Robin is not comfortable with Christmas trees.
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061101 - Mother called back.
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061103 - She was more composed, but cried a few times recalling Kathleen
061104 - having fallen in the kitchen and bleeding.
061106 -  ..
061107 - Mother explained the paramedics took a long time to arrive.  They
061108 - called several times.   She does not remember how long it took from
061109 - when they called 911.
061111 -  ..
061112 - The paramedics put Kath on a resporator.
061114 -  ..
061115 - Mother and Bob left a little later for the hospital, but when they
061116 - arrived at the hospital, they were told Kathleen had not yet arrived.
061118 -  ..
061119 - Some time later, a nurse said Kathleen was in a back room.  A doctor
061120 - came out late and said they could try to revive Kath, but her
061121 - condition had deterioriated due to earlier trauma, with the result
061122 - that she was effectively brain dead.
061124 -  ..
061125 - Mother called and talked to Kath's oncologist today, who said that
061126 - Kath's sudden failure was very unexpected, and that this kind of rapid
061127 - failure, where cancer attacks a main artery only occurs once in 300
061128 - patients, reported on 011128. ref SDS 12 0001
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061131 -  ..
061132 - The oncologist was monitoring Kath's progress, and planned to start
061133 - her on new treatments if her condition got worse.  They did not expect
061134 - such rapid deterioriation.
061136 -  ..
061137 - Mother has called to get records showing the timing of these events by
061138 - the paramedics, but the authorities refuse to release the information
061139 - without a power of attorney.  Evidently Patti can request this
061140 - informtion.  Mother talked to Patti this evening about it, and Patti
061141 - does not want to pursue it.
061143 -  ..
061144 - Mother requested Lillian's number.  Lil and Sally sent flowers, so
061145 - Mother wants to call and thank them.
061147 -  ..
061148 - Jerry also sent a big flower memorial for Kathleen.  Mother was very
061149 - pleased to hear from Jerry.
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061152 - Robin is coming over this evening with desert.
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